The landscape of masculinity and manhood is constantly evolving, often influenced by cultural icons, spiritual teachings, and societal expectations. Recently, discussions on manhood have gained momentum, focusing on how young men should conduct themselves in a modern world.
In this episode, Dr. Jared Longshore—Associate Pastor of Christ Church in Moscow, ID, and the Dean of New St. Andrews College—and I discuss everything from J.C. Ryle's poignant observations to the allure of contemporary figures like Andrew Tate.
Understanding J.C. Ryle’s Perspective on Masculinity
J.C. Ryle’s work, particularly “Holiness” and “Thoughts for Young Men,” provides a timeless standard for Christian conduct that is increasingly relevant. Written over a century ago, Ryle's observations resonate with today's challenges faced by young men who often struggle with authority and the responsibilities of adulthood.
Ryle emphasizes the importance of virtue, righteousness, and the inner battle against sin, framing it as the true adventure of manhood. His writing serves as a reminder that the battle for personal holiness is one that every man must engage in, regardless of the state of the world.
The Modern Allure of Figures like Andrew Tate
In today’s culture, figures like Andrew Tate captivate attention as embodiments of success and masculinity. However, as Dr. Longshore and I discuss, this allure can often be misplaced, channeling young men’s frustrations into paths that emphasize external achievements over inner virtues.
Dr. Longshore expresses bafflement at the appeal of such figures, advocating for a return to simpler, more grounded spiritual teachings as antidotes to superficial idolatries. The discussion suggests that real strength lies not in emulating extravagant lifestyles but in nurturing humility, discipline, and righteousness.
Righteousness vs. Sin: Choosing a Masculine Ideal
Together we tackle the perception that sin equates to success, as seen in the public lives of celebrities. This view is challenged by biblical narratives where sin leads to downfall, asserting that short-term gains often come at the price of long-term desolation.
They urge young men to pursue righteousness despite societal pressures, highlighting the eternal stability and true fulfillment it offers over the transient pleasures of sin.
The Role of Churches and Communities in Shaping Men
Our conversation also delves into the state of modern churches and their ability to nurture strong, righteous men. Concerns about effeminacy and lack of robust leadership within church communities are raised.
Dr. Longshore advises young men to seek out congregations that exemplify true masculine strength and courage. Churches should be spaces that cultivate men who are not only leaders in their families and workplaces but also embody the virtues extolled in Ryle’s writings.
Navigating the Challenges of Modern Manhood
Navigating modern manhood involves understanding the difference between genuine communities and those that simply scratch the itch of relevance without nurturing true growth.
Jared emphasizes the importance of joining real-world organizations and communities that challenge and build character. He warns against the dangers of purely online or 'self-selecting' groups that may affirm weaknesses rather than addressing them.
Conclusion: Embracing Holiness and Virtue
Ultimately, the conversation with serves as a call to young men to embrace a life of holiness and virtue over the fleeting allure of worldly success. By aligning with principles from Ryle and other spiritual guides, men can find a more profound sense of peace and identity. The podcast episode is a reminder of the power of humility, discipline, and righteousness in shaping a fulfilling and grounded male identity. As listeners reflect on the discussions, they're encouraged to evaluate their paths and make choices that foster genuine growth and impact.
In a world rife with transient idols and shallow victories, the enduring teachings of figures like J.C. Ryle provide a beacon for authentic manhood grounded in faith and virtue.
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